登陆注册
45339800000021

第21章 温暖的关怀(1)

第一节 背景介绍

在美国,可能每一所大学的毕业典礼都是相当精彩的。因为美国大学的毕业典礼很讲究排场,而且大多数毕业典礼还蕴含着丰富的历史文化与传统。而美国著名的大学——哈佛就是美国最古老大学里面的典范。每当毕业时节,哈佛的学子们都会以各自的宿舍为起点,排成纵队开始游行,穿过剑桥的街道再返回到哈佛园。在那里,你能看到学校的管理员、教授、一些有着重要身份的“校友”与穿着笨重长袍的嘉宾,他们带着奇特而又华丽的帽子或者头饰,悠闲地绕着新生们居住过的红砖楼招摇过市。

每一年的五月,美国的天空通常是阳光明媚一片晴朗,然而在大学里却是最为紧张和繁忙的季节,因为这是他们举行毕业典礼的时节。从五月份的第二个周末开始,美国的各所大学就开始相继举办毕业典礼。毕业典礼一般都会在周六举行,大约持续一天的时间。有的学校一年只举行一次毕业典礼,但有几千人参加,如果是这样那么毕业典礼将成为一年一度的盛会,不仅相当隆重,还会吸引一些名人前来参加。也有的学校每学期都会有成百上千的学生毕业,因而每学期都会举行毕业典礼。不过不管举行典礼的频率和规模如何,真正毕业的时刻也就是这个时候,这一刻将会给学生们留下在学校里或者是一生中最难忘的回忆。

尽管美国大学的毕业典礼都差不多,但是每所学校的毕业典礼总会有吸引人的亮点出现。不仅参加毕业典礼的学生在当天庆祝自己的大学时光即将结束,并对未来充满无限的憧憬。同时,各校都会邀请社会名流或者知名人士为他们做毕业典礼致辞,对莘莘学子们进行鼓励和鞭策。

毕业典礼上还有一个亮点就是多姿多彩的服饰。观众席上都是毕业生们的亲朋好友,男士西装革履,女士绸缎罗裙。不过最引人注目的就数参加毕业典礼的主角们了,美国大学的毕业典礼就像一场服饰表演。

美国大学的毕业典礼通常都会有一些名人来做演讲,最著名的演讲要属克林顿和比尔·盖茨两人同时参加哈佛毕业典礼的演讲了。不过在哈佛演讲的嘉宾绝对不是由校方的行政管理人员决定的,最终敲定人选的是哈佛校友会。演讲的嘉宾是谁还要看学生和校友的意愿,需要体现出哈佛学子们的价值取向与兴趣所在。

哈佛的毕业典礼通常都会定在哈佛纪念堂与怀德纳图书馆之间的无边绿茵中,而且哈佛每年都会有两场演讲,一个是毕业纪念日演讲,一个是毕业典礼演讲。毕业纪念日演讲要先进行,专属于哈佛本科学院的毕业生。

2007年6月1日,克林顿参加了哈佛1667名毕业生的毕业典礼。克林顿担任毕业纪念日演讲嘉宾,而比尔·盖茨担任的是毕业典礼演讲嘉宾。他们在哈佛的演讲如果不讲钱和政治,那么会讲些什么呢?来参加哈佛毕业典礼的两位重量级人物无论是职业还是个性都截然不同,然而两人如出一辙的演讲却博得了众多哈佛学子的热烈掌声。在如此之多的话题中,他们选择了一个共同的话题:“对全人类的博爱”。他们讲到了要借助青年人的能力与才智去为社会做出贡献,提及了人们应当跳出自我,超越个体成就的狭隘。两人的演讲精彩又朴实,无处不体现出对哈佛学子们的关怀与希望,也正是因为这种独具魅力的演造就了美国特有的校园文化。

第二节 克林顿2007年哈佛大学毕业纪念日的演讲

June 1, 2007

Thank you very much, Samantha, Stephanie, Chris, all the marshals, all the student speakers. Thanks for the gags and the jokes, and you know, when I got invited to do this, it was humbling in some ways. They asked Bill Gates to be the Commencement speaker. He's got more money than I do and he went to Harvard.

And I brought my friend Glenn Hutchins here with me, who's at his 30th reunion and he had something to do with overseeing the endowment and he explained that Gates was really, really, really rich and I was just rich.

And then I thought, well, the students asked me and that's good and besides, I don't have to wear a robe.But I couldn’t figure out why on what is supposed to be a festive and informal day, you would pick a gray-haired 60-year-old to speak.

Following the great tradition of Al Franken, Will Ferrell, Borat or Ali G or whoever he was that day. Conan O'Brien, that Family Guy person. What a tradition. So I did like Talladega Nights, however. Then I was reading all I could find out about the class and I thought well, they don't have any fun today. They already had fun. They had this class-wide Risk tournament around exam time.

And I understood when I heard the followership speech, I understood why you had that. Now you can all run for president. You played Risk. It's an eight-year Risk tournament. Then I thought well, maybe it's because you're about to name Drew Faust your next president, and I think women should run everything now. And then I figure maybe it's just because Robin Williams and Billy Crystal turned you down. But for whatever reason, we're here and I have had a really good time.

You've already heard most of what you need to hear today, I think. But I want to focus for a minute on the fact that these graduating classes since 1968 have invited a few non-comedians. First was Martin Luther King, who was killed in April before. I remember that very well because it was my senior year at Georgetown. He was killed in April, before he could come and give the speech. And Coretta came and gave the speech for him here. And you’ve had Mother Teresa and you've had Bono. What do they all have in common? They are symbols of our common humanity and a rebuke even to humorists' cynicism.

Martin Luther King basically said he lived the way he did because we were all caught in what he called an inescapable web of mutuality. Nelson Mandela, the world's greatest living example of that, I believe, comes from a tribe in South Africa, the Xhosa, who call it ubuntu. In English, I am because you are. That led Mother Teresa from Albania to spend her life with the poorest people on earth in Calcutta. It led Bono from his rock stage to worry about innocent babies dying of AIDS, and poor people with good minds who never got a chance to follow their dreams.

This is a really fascinating time to be a college senior. I was looking at all of you, wishing I could start over again and thinking I'd let you be president if you let me be 21.I'd take a chance on ****** it all over again if I could do it again.

But I think, just think what an exciting time it is. All this explosion of knowledge. Just in the last couple of weeks before I came here, I read that thanks to the sequencing of the human genome, the ongoing research has identified two markers which seem to be high predictors of diabetes, which, as you heard, is a very important thing to me because it's now predicted that one in three children born in the United States in this decade will develop diabetes.We run the risk that we could be raising a first generation of kids to live shorter lives than their parents. Not because we're hungry, but because we don't eat the right things and we don't exercise. But this is a big deal.

Then right after that, I saw that through our powerful telescopes we have identified a planet orbiting one of the hundred stars closest to our solar system, that appears to have the atmospheric conditions so similar to ours that life could actually be possible there.

Alas, even though it's close to us in terms of the great universe, it's still 20 million light-years away. Unreachable in the lifetime of any young person. So unless there's a budding astrophysicist in the class that wants to get married in a hurry and then commit three generations and take another couple with him, we'll have to wait for them to come to us. It's an exciting time.

It's also exciting because of all the diversity. If you look around this audience, I was thinking, I wonder how different this crowd would have looked if someone like me had been giving this speech 30 years ago. And how much more interesting it is for all of us.

It’s a frustrating time, because for all the opportunity, there’s a lot of inequality. There’s a lot of insecurity and there’s a lot of instability and unsustainability. Half the world’s people still live on less than two bucks a day. A billion on less than a dollar a day. A billion people go to bed hungry tonight. A billion people won’t get a clean glass of water today or any day in their lives. One in four of all the people who die this year will die from AIDS, TB, malaria and infections related to dirty water. Nobody in America dies of any of that except people whose AIDS medicine doesn’t work anymore, or people who decline to follow the prescribed regime.

Now remember a few months ago, everybody I knew was shaking their head when we found out that there was a plot in London to put explosive chemicals in a baby bottle to make it look like formula to evade the airport inspection. And every time I ask somebody, I said did you feel a chill go up and down your spine, they said yeah, they did. Because they can imagine being on the airplane, or in my case, I could imagine my daughter, who has to travel a lot on her job, being on the airplane. But here’s what I want to tell you about that. The inequality is fixable and the insecurity is manageable. We’re going to really have to go some in the 21st century to see political violence claim as many innocent lives as it did in the 20th century. Keep in mind you had what, 12 million people killed in World War I, somewhere between 15 and 20 million in World War II, six million in the Holocaust, six million Jews, three million others. Twenty million in the political purges in the former Soviet Union between the two world wars and one afterward. Two million in Cambodia alone. Millions in tribal wars in Africa. An untold but large number in the Chinese Cultural Revolution. I mean, we’re going to have to really get after it, if you expect your generation to claim as many innocents from political violence as was claimed in the 20th century. The difference is you think it could be you this time. Because of the interdependence of the world. So yes, it’s insecure but it’s manageable.

It’s also an unsustainable world because of climate change, resource depletion, and the fact that between now and 2050, the world’s supposed to grow from six and a half to nine billion people, with most of the growth in the countries least able to handle it, under today’s conditions, never mind those. That’s all fixable, too. So is climate change a problem? Is resource depletion a problem? Is poverty and the fact that 130 million kids never go to school and all this disease that I work on a problem? You bet it is. But I believe the most important problem is the way people think about it and each other, and themselves. The world is awash today in political, religious, almost psychological conflicts, which require us to divide up and demonize people who aren’t us. And every one of them in one way or the other is premised on a very ****** idea. That our differences are more important than our common humanity. I would argue that Mother Teresa was asked here, Bono was asked here, and Martin Luther King was asked here because this class believed that they were people who thought our common humanity was more important than our differences.

So with this Harvard degree and your incredible minds and your spirits that I’ve gotten a little sense of today, this gives you virtually limitless possibilities. But you have to decide how to think about all this and what to do with your own life in terms of what you really think. I hope that you will share Martin Luther King’s dream, embrace Mandela’s spirit of reconciliation, support Bono’s concern for the poor and follow Mother Teresa’s life into some active service. Ordinary people have more power to do public good than ever before because of the rise of non-governmental organizations, because of the global media culture, because of the Internet, which gives people of modest means the power, if they all agree, to change the world. When former President Bush and I were asked to work on the tsunami, before we did the Katrina work, Americans, many of whom could not find the Maldives or Sri Lanka on a map, gave $1.2 billion to tsunami aid. Thirty percent of our households gave. Half of them gave over the Internet, which means you don’t even have to be rich to change the world if enough people agree with you. But we have to do this. Citizen service is a tradition in our country about as old as Harvard, and certainly older than the government.

Benjamin Franklin organized the first volunteer fire department in Philadelphia 40 years before the Constitution was ratified. When de Tocqueville came here in 1835, he talked among other things about how he was amazed that Americans just were always willing to step up and do something, not wait for someone else to do it. Now we have in America a 1,010,000 non-governmental groups. Not counting 355,000 religious groups, most of whom are involved in some sort of work to help other people. India has a million registered, over a half a million active. China has 280,000 registered and twice that many not registered because they don’t want to be confined. Russia has 400,000, so many that President Putin is trying to restrict them. I wish he wouldn’t do that, but it’s a high-class problem. There were no NGOs in Russia or China when I became president in 1993. All over the world we have people who know that they can do things to change, but again, I will say to all of you, there is no challenge we face, no barrier to having your grandchildren here on this beautiful site 50 years from now, more profound than the ideological and emotional divide which continues to demean our common life and undermine our ability to solve our common problems. The ****** idea that our differences are more important than our common humanity.

When the human genome was sequenced, and the most interesting thing to me as a non-scientist – we finished it in my last year I was president, I really rode herd on this thing and kept throwing more money at it – the most interesting thing to me was the discovery that human beings with their three billion genomes are 99.9 percent identical genetically. So if you look around this vast crowd today, at the military caps and the baseball caps and the cowboy hats and the turbans, if you look at all the different colors of skin, all the heights, all the widths, all the everything, it’s all rooted in one-tenth of one percent of our genetic make-up. Don’t you think it’s interesting that not just people you find appalling, but all the rest of us, spend 90 percent of our lives thinking about that one-tenth of one percent? I mean, don’t we all? How much of the laugh lines in the speeches were about that? At least I didn’t go to Yale, right? That Brown gag was hilarious.

But it’s all the same deal, isn’t it? I mean, the intellectual premise is that the only thing that really matters about our lives are the distinctions we can draw. Indeed, one of the crassest elements of modern culture, all these sort of talk shows, and even a lot of political journalism that's sort of focused on this shallow judgmentalism. They try to define everybody down by the worst moment in their lives, and it all is about well, no matter whatever’s wrong with me, I’m not that. And yet, you ask Martin Luther King, Mother Teresa and Bono to come here. Nelson Mandela’s the most admired person in the world. I got tickled the other night. I wound up in a restaurant in New York with a bunch of friends of mine. And I looked over and two tables away, and there was Rush Limbaugh, who’s said a few mad things about me. So I went up and shook hands with him and said hello and met his dinner guest. And I came just that close to telling him we were 99.9 percent the same. But I didn’t want to ruin the poor man’s dessert, so I let it go.

Now we’re laughing about this but next month, I’m ****** my annual trek to Africa to see the work of my AIDS and development project, and to celebrate with Nelson Mandela his birthday. He’s 89. Don’t know how many more he’ll have. And when I think that I might be 99.9 percent the same as him, I can’t even fathom it. So I say that to you, do we have all these other problems? Is Darfur a tragedy? Do I wish America would adopt sensible climate change regulation? Do I hate the fact that ideologues in the government doctored scientific reports? Do I disagree with a thousand things that are going on? Absolutely. But it all flows from the idea that we can violate elemental standards of learning and knowledge and reason and even the humanity of our fellow human beings because our differences matter more. That’s what makes you worship power over purpose. Our differences matter more. One of the greatest things that's happened in the last few years is doing all this work with former President Bush. You know, I ought to be doing this. I’m healthy and not totally antiquated. He’s 82 years old, still jumping out of airplanes and still doing stuff like this. And I love the guy. I’m sorry for all the diehard Democrats in the audience. I just do. And life is all about seeing things new every day. And I'll just close with two stories, one from Asia, one from Africa. And I’m telling you all the details don’t matter as much as this.

After George Bush and I did the tsunami, we got so into this disaster work that Kofi Annan asked him to oversee the UN’s efforts in Pakistan after the earthquake, which you acknowledged today, and asked me to stay on as the tsunami coordinator for two years. So on my next to last trip to Aceh in Indonesia, the by far the hardest hit place, a quarter of a million people killed. I went to one of these refugee camps where in the sweltering heat, several thousand people were still living in tents. Highly uncomfortable. And my job was to go there and basically listen to them complain and figure out what to do about it, and how to get them out of there more quickly. So every one of these camps elected a camp leader and when I appeared, I was introduced to my young interpreter, a young Indonesian woman, and to the guy who was the camp leader, and his wife and his son. And they smiled, said hello, and then I looked down at this little boy, and I literally could not breathe. I think he’s the most beautiful child I ever saw. And I said to my young interpreter, I said, I believe that’s the most beautiful boy I ever saw in my life. She said, yes, he’s very beautiful and before the tsunami he had nine brothers and sisters. And now they’re all gone.

So the wife and the son excused themselves. And the father who had lost his nine children proceeded to take me on a two-hour tour of this camp. He had a smile on his face. He never talked about anything but what the people in that camp needed. He gave no hint of what had happened to him and the grief that he bore. We get to the end of the tour. It’s the health clinic in the camp. I look up and there is his wife, a mother who had lost nine of her 10 children, holding a little bitty baby less than a week old, the newest born baby in the camp. And she told me, I’m going to get in trouble for telling this. She told me that in Indonesian culture, when a woman has a baby, she gets to go to bed for 40 days and everyone waits on her hand and foot. She doesn’t get up, nothing happens. And then on the 40th day, the mother gets up out of bed, goes back to work doing her life and they name the baby. So this child was less than a week old. So this mother who had lost her nine children is here holding this baby. And she says to me, this is our newest born baby. And we want you to name him. Little boy. So I looked at her and I said through my interpreter, I said, do you have a name for new beginning? And she explained and the woman said something back and the interpreter said yes, luckily for you, in Indonesian the word for dawn is a boy’s name. And the mother just said to me, we will call this child Dawn and he will symbolize our new beginning. You shouldn’t have to meet people that lose nine of their 10 children, cherish the one they got left, and name a newborn baby Dawn to realize that what we have in common is more important than what divides us.

同类推荐
  • 赢在自控力

    赢在自控力

    如果问:你觉得什么样类型的人自控力强?是否会想到各行各业的成功人士?每个领域最优秀的人才都是从最简单最枯燥的重复中掌握了达到最高深技艺的途径。由自控力成就的成功,是你看他很容易,你想成为他却很难,成功,不是样板戏,没有绝对的标准,不要相信自己能简单复制别人的经历,轻易获得类似的成功,但要相信别人的经验可以借鉴。有句古话叫:“知己知彼,百战不殆”,他人的经验是工作生活的《孙子兵法》,是为人处世的《资治通鉴》,亦是闲暇时的《闲情偶寄》……阅读《赢在自控力》,相信你懂得:自控力,对成功人士来说,是多么重要,而对普通人来说,也是融入生活的方方面面。
  • 人生试金石

    人生试金石

    本书以类于小说和戏剧的材料,组织成现实中各种“冲突性的事件”,以精练的体裁、简洁的文字,表现处纷纭人世需面对的种种矛盾、挑战。并以作者王鼎钧的慧眼卓识,启迪年轻人辨黑白、鉴善恶、取曲直,立身处事,堪为“人生的孙子兵法”。
  • 斯大林

    斯大林

    本书为“世界名人非常之路”丛书之一。丛书精选荟萃了古今中外各行各业具有代表性的有关名人,其中包括政治领袖、将帅英雄、思想大家、科学巨子、文坛泰斗、艺术巨匠、体坛健儿、企业精英、探险英雄、平凡伟人等,主要以他们的成长历程和人生发展为线索,尽量避免冗长的说教性叙述,而采用日常生活中富于启发性的小故事来通达他们成功的道理,尤其着重表现他们所处时代的生活特征和他们建功立业的艰难过程,以便使读者产生思想共鸣和受到启迪。
  • 丢掉负情绪,好好爱自己

    丢掉负情绪,好好爱自己

    有时候,你感到彷徨、无助、迷茫、郁闷、暴躁等负面情绪充斥在身边,一点小事也会让你伤神不已,这说明你必须要进行改变,丢掉所有不愉快的感觉,用正向思考来面对生活。正向思考是健康乐观、积极向上的动力。它并不具备一种神奇的魔力,可以无中生有,给你变出你想要的东西,而是根据心理学的规律,利用自我的心态调整,来一场华丽变身。正向思考是迈向成功不可或缺的要素,是成功理论中最重要的一项原则,你可以将它运用到工作和生活的方方面面。
  • 自动自发

    自动自发

    面对人才济济的职场,我们怎样才能在竞争中取得优势、获得胜利呢?本书从八个章节入手,针对日常工作最常见的现象,围绕公司、老板、员工与工作等命题编写,通过丰富的理论和案例阐述,为读者指引一个正确的方向。
热门推荐
  • 最远的心辰

    最远的心辰

    她一直是一个人,在遇到他之前,她的心只属于她自己,直到他的出现,在她的世界里惊起一丝波澜,然后转身决绝地离开,只剩她一个人无边地寻找,无望地等待,于是,他成了她心中最遥不可及的星辰……
  • 三千辐兵

    三千辐兵

    真真假假何亦真,大道三千莫等闲。错杂的世界观中,谁对谁错?!无限逃亡过程中,领悟人生真谛......
  • 农门福宝小媳妇

    农门福宝小媳妇

    杏花村来了个小乞丐人人嫌弃怕浪费口粮,只有叶家不嫌弃收养她,村里人等着看笑话,结果啪啪打脸!叶家大嫂多年无孕,宠了福娃娃,次年生下龙凤胎!叶家大哥宠了福娃娃,金银珠宝滚滚来!奇葩亲戚邻居,欺负福娃娃,天天出门倒血霉!所有疼爱铃儿的人,都有了福报;所有欺负铃儿的人,都有了祸事;叶家的老三叶骏这才发现自家的小媳妇,来路很不寻常呀!
  • 闯魔界

    闯魔界

    不是穿越到魔界,而是走着去的,是和好兄弟一起走着去得,去是为了救一只猫.......后来才知道魔界不好混,各种扯淡打怪寻宝,是谁骗我来的,竟然来了,那就闯个魔主的官当当吧
  • 财阀大少的冷艳妻

    财阀大少的冷艳妻

    他是一个已婚男人,却爱上了一个不该爱的女人;她和他在一起,心里想的却是另一个男人。再强悍的男人,终究也敌不过女人的柔情……
  • 总裁求放过之我不是好人

    总裁求放过之我不是好人

    宁长安就是想不明白,她一个做坏事不留名,从没做过好事儿的人,为什么陆知临总死缠着她不放?
  • 女配之地处处有坑

    女配之地处处有坑

    姐不过整天看小说,老天爷就收了我。好吧好吧,姐认栽,可可……姐居然书穿了,还是个女配,那女配还是个演员。呜呜(┯_┯),姐不会演戏……(内有小剧场赠送滴,快来,快来。)
  • 武侠世界的土地神

    武侠世界的土地神

    “凡人再强,也不过是凡人,神再弱,也是神!”“武道再强,也强不过神道!”武侠世界闯入一名萌新土地神,想要发展自己的信徒,却遭到本土势力的激烈抵抗……神道复苏,灵气回归,鬼魅横行,这是一个崩坏的武侠故事………… 书友群:[神丹堂:107666623]
  • 南明日不落

    南明日不落

    “请问男主,您穿越成南明最后一位太子,作何感想?是否感觉到了鸭力?”“没吧,毕竟本人可是开了所有明末文中最逆天的金手指。”
  • 魅惑周少惹妻怜

    魅惑周少惹妻怜

    为了弟弟,她只好留在男主身边,但是时间越久,她才发现原来自己早就已经沉浸在了这种关系中,她已经爱上了他。他仅仅是因为她长得像自己心底的那个人把她留在了自己的身边,他把自己所有的怒气全部发泄在了她的身上,他以为她只是一个替身而已,但是后来他才醒悟...